Watch for
Liking someone more after doing them a favour even if you were neutral before.
Doing a favour makes you like the person more.
A cognitive bias where performing a favour for someone leads to increased liking because the brain resolves dissonance between the helpful act and any negative feelings.
Liking someone more after doing them a favour even if you were neutral before.
Be aware that your feelings may be influenced by your actions not the other way around.
After helping a colleague you disliked you find yourself feeling more positive toward them.
Elliot Aronson
First described in 1969
Cognitive dissonance resolution. Doing a favour for someone you dislike creates tension. The easiest resolution is to adjust your attitude upward.
Jecker and Landy (1969) experimental demonstration building on Festinger cognitive dissonance theory.
Biases are not character flaws. They are recurring patterns in how minds compress uncertainty, save energy, and narrate reality. Once you recognise the pattern, you can slow the decision down, test the assumption, and make space for a better explanation.