Watch for
Using "everyone knows" or "obviously" when describing your own views.
We overestimate how much others agree with us.
The tendency to overestimate the extent to which other people share our beliefs, attitudes, and behaviours.
Using "everyone knows" or "obviously" when describing your own views.
Seek out actual data on opinion distributions rather than assuming.
Someone who prefers remote work assumes "most people" feel the same way.
Lee Ross, David Greene, Pamela House
First described in 1977
Availability and Self-Validation. Because our own thoughts, opinions, and social circles are highly accessible in memory, they form our primary baseline for estimating public sentiment. Additionally, believing our views are normal and widely accepted protects our self-esteem.
Lee Ross, David Greene, and Pamela House (1977), "The 'false consensus effect': An egocentric bias in social perception and attribution processes."
Biases are not character flaws. They are recurring patterns in how minds compress uncertainty, save energy, and narrate reality. Once you recognise the pattern, you can slow the decision down, test the assumption, and make space for a better explanation.